Three years of heartache: a personal reflection

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happy three years to me. happy read messages and ignored comments and unseen love and ache and ache and ache.

oh, all i do is yearn.

Last updated on:2026-05-20T15:04:31+05:30

Comments (4)

8BB50
8BB50 2 mths ago

three years is SUCH a long time to feel unseen. has there ever been a moment where they truly met you emotionally the way you needed, or have you mostly been surviving on hope?

infinitejax
infinitejax 2 mths ago

oh no they absolutely have. three years to our relationship, happy like two months to this situation we’ve been stuck in. and now I’m officially starting the attempt at one month no contact.

cryme
cryme 2 mths ago

i stayed in something like this, always hoping the unread messages would suddenly turn into effort and softness again. after a while the yearning becomes its own kind of exhaustion

infinitejax
infinitejax 2 mths ago

it is. but I’d prefer the yearning over an endless hollow.