i just feel like crazy I had to accept everything because he tole me that everything what i dont like is normal for them. accept that there is no kids in future, maybe in the future he is gonna take drugs, and chats with a lot of woman friends .. he told me that I am the problem. Now he wants to be friends.. he contact me that he is sorry and if I need something that I can contact him. I just feel so broke. I know i cant be friends … right now
Last updated on:2026-05-21T05:09:52+05:30
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ohhh that exact place where someone slowly convinces you your boundaries are “too much” and that you’re the problem for feeling hurt. my ex kept trying to turn friendship into some kind of consolation prize too, and honestly i couldn’t do it. i was still bleeding from everything he normalized
for me is impossible to stay friends, he hurt me in some way with everything, he just told me that i have to accept how he is .. for me is impossible because is not good for me .. i felt so lost, I accepted lot of things just to dont lost him.. but i was really stupid .. now my eyes are open but feels like big sadness to me
i really don’t think being friends right now is fair to you. when someone spent so long making you doubt yourself, staying close to them can keep reopening the wound. i had to fully step away before my brain stopped treating every text like hope.
Yes i dont understand ehy he wants to stay so close? .. i dont want to know nothing about him
when he said all those things were “normal,” did you actually believe him at the time or did part of you always know deep down that none of it sat right with you?
I felt that its not right, but he made me believes that I just have to accept it if I love him. But in the end I just lost myself. He want to stay in touch and be friends now we are 3 days without contact