I just broke up with him 5 hours ago, i feel like im gonna die. I know it needed to happen, my trust with him was majorly broke twice and he messed up his second chance. We just started long distance and it was supposed to go well I don’t understand why he had to lie to me and he doubled down. I love him so much, even though he hurt me i have so much love for him because more than anything i was happy. I feel sick, I invested a year and 8 months into our relationship and I hate that it has come to this. He bought a ring and he was gonna propose, we talked about getting married and traveling together I just feel so sick. He kept saying he loved me when we broke up and I hate that because i said we need to break up, when i still love him so so much. I don’t feel like my heart can take it, my house is filled with constant reminders of him. I didn’t think when he left me at my best friends house and we said goodbye thinking he would come to visit, that it would be the last time we would be physically together I hate this.
Last updated on:2026-05-25T03:05:11+05:30
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nobody prepares you for, when you know the breakup was necessary but your body still screams for them anyway.
know everything feels unbearable right now, but please don’t reach back out tonight. the first 24 hours after my breakup i kept rereading old messages and reopening wounds every five minutes, and it wrecked me more.
when you think about the lies now, do you feel more heartbroken over losing the future you planned together or over the fact he broke your trust twice after getting another chance?
Thank God u get to know before its too late. He cheated u twice .Think if he would have cheated after u get married and probably had kids with him.Think it as a blessing.Just stay strong , acknowledge ur feelings and love urself.Next time his memories haunt you, just say loudly to ur that HE WAS A CHEATER
I’m really sorry you’re going through this, because I can feel how much it hurts to end things with someone you still love so deeply, especially after a year and 8 months where you’d built plans, dreams, and a whole future together that now feels like it’s been pulled out from under you. It makes complete sense that you feel sick and like your heart can’t take it right now, because walking away from someone you love, even when you know it’s the right thing, is one of the hardest things to do, and the fact that your house is full of reminders of him probably makes every corner feel heavy. But you didn’t make a mistake by choosing yourself after your trust was broken twice and he chose to lie and double down even when you gave him a second chance, because love without honesty and respect eventually breaks you more than the breakup ever could. It’s okay to grieve the relationship, the plans, and the version of the future you thought you had, and it’s okay that right now it feels like you’re not going to make it through the day, because heartbreak doesn’t feel logical or fair, it just feels raw and overwhelming. Give yourself permission to feel all of it without rushing to be okay, lean on your best friend who’s with you right now, and remind yourself that the pain you feel is proof of how deeply you loved, not proof that you should go back, and while it doesn’t feel like it in this moment, the heaviness will lift little by little, and you’ll get to a place where you can breathe again without him.😊