hi it's been a month since i went no contact with him. during that time i've realized that even though we talked every day my sudden disappearance doesn't seem to have affected him at all. he unfriended me on all social media but never blocked me. sometimes i wonder if he was only replying out of kindness and now that i've stopped reaching out it feels like losing whatever we had hurts me a lot more than it hurts him.
but like i said it's been a month now. i'm not as sad as i was in the beginning and getting back to my normal life is becoming easier. still i catch myself checking his online status and wondering what he's doing or how he's been. sometimes i go back and reread our old messages. i don't even know why because all it really does is reopen the wound.
i know deleting the texts or blocking him would probably be healthier for me but i just can't bring myself to do it. not yet.
Last updated on:2026-06-01T17:55:12+05:30
Comments (3)
Stop feeding the thought — let time fade it.
My advice would be to allow yourself to mourn what you wished the relationship had been and what it could have become. Grieve the good moments, too. Truly grieve the ending. If that means crying in the shower, listening to songs that remind you of the relationship, and letting yourself feel every emotion, then do that.
When something is meaningful, i's hard to not miss it especially if things ended amicable and even when they don't when you care or love someone rationality goes out the window, you're already moving foward just stop looking back try to erase the chats, unfollow his socials, number. Try to cut off the past bit by bit and keep the experience.