obviously because I can’t help myself I broke no contact I lasted four days. wrote a heartfelt email to be ignored can’t say I’m surprised. why do I do this to myself in the moment I understood why but now I’m annoyed at myself.
Last updated on:2026-06-15T17:43:12+05:30
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be a little gentle with yourself. four days is still four days, and one setback didn't erase the fact that you're trying. what helped me was treating it like a stumble, not a restart.
when you sent the email, were you hoping for a specific response from them or did you just need them to finally hear what was on your mind?
i felt I had to say this, I realised he still has no job, no life and his career is still at a standstill and my stupid self wanted to give him help and care and I was scared he thought i didn’t love him still and I was hoping that he still loved me and that he was just fixing his life. well behold no response and now I feel worse for it.
i once broke no contact after a week and sent this long message i poured my heart into, then got absolutely nothing back. that silence hurt more than if he'd just said something cruel.
I wish I never fell so deeply in love with him he was too me meant to be my final love and now he’s gone and I’m here still hurting, still as much in love with him as I was before my heart hurts my soul is destroyed and I wish I could see him again but I’m in the uk and he’s in America he’s not blocked me well unblocked me last week. it’s been a month on Wednesday of his silence and I wish he would miss and love me as much as I do him but I don’t think he does