Why do i feel jealous of my ex's new life?

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honestly I’m jealous my ex of four years won’t even communicate with me because he’s had to move back in with his mum she hates me he forgot to tell her we got back together well he didn’t he did it to save the peace. He then proceeded to act like we were not together and that I was stalking him. when we were not together too stop him getting in trouble with his mum, yes he’s 33 years old 🙄🙄.

He hurt me so badly to keep his mum happy. I’d give anything to have a conversation with him 😔😔

Last updated on:2026-06-15T14:50:40+05:30

Comments (8)

6585PC
6585PC 2 mths ago

the part that stands out to me is how much of yourself you had to shrink to fit his situation.

Louiseanne
Louiseanne 2 mths ago

he was my world I still love him and one of my biggest fears was him leaving me because I knew how much it would hurt.

nomad01
nomad01 2 mths ago

if he called you tomorrow and finally wanted to talk, what is the one thing you'd need to hear from him the most?

Louiseanne
Louiseanne 2 mths ago

that he still loves me as much as I still love him and that he wants me to wait for him

drysand
drysand 2 mths ago

my ex cared more about keeping everyone else comfortable than being honest with me, and being treated like a secret when you're supposed to be someone's partner HURTS in a way that's hard to explain.

Louiseanne
Louiseanne 2 mths ago

I’m devastated it’s been a month and my heart is so broken 😞

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 2 mths ago

I had an ex like this. He told me he'd never love anyone as much as he loves his mum, and drugs lol. I dont know why I stuck around, they never change. You need a.man who is independent but also loves his mum, not making decisions based on what would make the mum proud

Louiseanne
Louiseanne 2 mths ago

he use to be, that’s the problem. if he was like this in the beginning I would of stayed away it’s a big red flag if mum is too much involved