Why can't i get over my first love?

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why does anyone get over their first love ? are they always stuck on your mind leaving u stuck and lost when you try to start over with someone else? or is it just me...

Last updated on:2026-06-25T08:36:35+05:30

Comments (7)

imemonow
imemonow 2 mths ago

i still think of him everyday but i dont long for him anymore. its just “muscle memory”, i feel at peace and i can imagine a future without them. Its been 6months

Sun833
Sun833 2 mths ago

my first love stayed in my head for years after we ended, and for a long time i thought that meant i'd never move on. eventually the memories stayed, but they stopped running my life.

bronto
bronto 2 mths ago

i didn't need to erase him to move forward. i stopped measuring every new person against my first love, and that made a huge difference.

orphell1
orphell1 2 mths ago

how long has it been for you? are you missing them specifically, or missing how it felt to experience that kind of love for the first time

ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy 2 mths ago

idk i cant say for everyone but I never got over my first love..

HappyAndVibin586

same man. its been over a year. lots of ppl wanted me. i tried but eventually felt like im leading them on. felt like a villain. anyway he cant get over me i cant get over him but we just cant be together

JoyfulMate237
JoyfulMate237 2 mths ago

Goddammit, exactly my situation but it's not just over a year. It's been 6years in the loop. First love in everything.