I tried to have new partner but every time I end up missing him even more
Like why God cant help me
I pray, to stop loving him
Last updated on:2026-07-01T20:06:18+05:30
Why can't i stop missing him?
I tried to have new partner but every time I end up missing him even more
Like why God cant help me
I pray, to stop loving him
Last updated on:2026-07-01T20:06:18+05:30
Comments (14)
me was taking a break from dating and letting myself miss them without fighting it every minute. the feelings didn't disappear overnight, but they stopped running my whole life.
how long has it been since the breakup? i'm wondering if you're feeling pressure to move on before your heart has actually caught up.
like 10 months
this one hit me. i tried dating before i was ready too, and every new person just reminded me of my ex instead of helping me move on. it made me realize i was still grieving, not ready to replace what i'd lost.
first time i tried was after 18 months, than I get back with him. Now is 10 months and I promise I woudnt go back to him
look, it takes time but it’s okay. I have the same problem and I understand you so much. it’s normal to miss him and it’s normal to feel like that but sometimes some doors close to open new made better once, even if it takes some time. I want to tell you all this bc I want to understand that either. 💕
NOT MADE*
It'll get better.. It always does
problem is that this was his second chanse
last time we been in no contact for almost two years
and i tried loving someone else
but i couldunt
thats why i gave him second chanse
you are going to be okay trust me. I'm feeling way bad but let's go mates
You don't have to stop loving him, you just have to know that at this time this is not about him, its about you. Come back to you, create a life of joy for you. You dont have to let go in the sense that love doesnt exist anymore. You can even keep the idea of repair, if that is how you feel. Your learning to detach from a whole other human beings nervous system, it is not easy but you're doing it, 158 days of NC is HUGE. Remind yourself of that.You are doing the work, you are doing what you can with how you feel now. And that is enough.
I can't feel the same way for anyone. it's al numb
I feel the same. I have talked to zilliosk people so far. but I think I have lostthe abilti to love anymore
you need to let some of your emotions go and grieve the loss of that relationship to really move on.