I guess we don't have any choice but to accept the fact that we cannot force someone to stay in our lives.
Last updated on:2026-07-04T23:48:24+05:30
Why moving on feels impossible sometimes
I guess we don't have any choice but to accept the fact that we cannot force someone to stay in our lives.
Last updated on:2026-07-04T23:48:24+05:30
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you're right, even when it hurts
I know bro :<
was there a moment that made you finally accept it, or are you still trying to convince your heart of what your mind already knows?
Trying to convince my heart, since I already know, even though it's hard.
unfortunately
when you get to this stage and stop reaching out and leave them like they are strangers it definitely starts to get better xx
Frfr
@Eraser I got to that stage, it hurt so much to ween myself off him but it get better each day. The second my energy stopped going to him I met someone who puts as much energy in as I do it’s nice to not have to chase someone else
@Louiseanne I'm glad to hear it! Love you guys
Real
i spent months trying to find the right words that would make them stay, and one day i realized i was the only one still fighting. that was a brutal thing to accept.
Same brother
But God, how frustrating is that he told me when he'll get better (he was struggling with depression) we'll get back, instead he got with another one; I think tho that he's literally using her as a bandaid on his "wounds", i dreamed about it too, and as a person with high intuition he literally told me in it that he is using her, so I got the answer. I hate that I still think about him..
I kept trying to keep something together when they didn't want to be with me abd jt just hurt me 100x more then if I had just let her go a year ago.
Sending hugs brother
@Eraser you too hang in there it gets better with time. I have a old friend that used to have a crush on me im talking too now. things kinda just happened.
@ItsNotEasy i hope i have one haha
pretty much.
exactly. what isn't meant for you will disappoint you a thousand times till you learn to let go.
this hit so hard
yes!