unsure really how long my ex left ghosted and sent the worlds most coldest discard after four years. the way I see it, he’s not a nice person he ruined a four year relationship because of his mother and the lies he told to make him seem like a victim. when I look at pictures of him now I see how ugly he is inside and out. I am hurt by how I got treated because I deserved better than what I got, especially after giving four years off my life too someone who never deserved it. forgiving myself for this is something I need to learn to do. the last week I’ve been speaking to someone who i really like, we are building such an amazing foundation and the level of empathy and maturity he has is amazing. we enjoy each other’s company without putting pressure. it was like an instant connection both sides and it’s something I’ve never had with anybody before, I’m still very guarded because of how I was treated by my ex but I am so grateful that joe understands and is reassuraning and patient with me. He lets me talk nonsense and joins in and can spot how anxious I get over certain things between us and is very quick to make sure that he reassures me, I feel comfortable with him. so I’m hoping that we continue to build and I like feeling at peace for the first time in four years
Last updated on:2026-07-05T17:41:11+05:30
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what do you think feels the most different with joe compared to your last relationship?
i finally looking at my ex and realizing i missed who i thought he was, not how he actually treated me. i'm really happy you've found someone who makes you feel safe.
just be sure it’s not a re bound. we tend to be very vulnerable after a hard break up. 4 years especially in an abusive relationship you need to heal. and I know the new guys seems understanding and if he really is he will allow you to heal completely. please put yourself above all you need this.
I will ❤️❤️
@Louiseanne glad to hear. will try it myself hahaha
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