i don’t check his socials much at all anymore but sometime between 8-9 weeks of no contact he went into our saved in chats on snapchat and unsaved the photos he had saved of me in chat from april and march (we broke up in april) but left everything from february back until september. they were just selfies or random things from my day. he didn’t delete any of the snaps he had sent me that i saved.
it’s just weird to me that he’s suddenly making these changes.
i also can’t figure it out because if he’s moved on and indifferent about me why not just unsave everything? or unadd me? or just leave it alone since you literally have to scroll all the way down find my name and then edit things.
does anyone know what this means?
i’m thinking maybe he’s talking to someone new and doesn’t want her to see but again just unadd me then?
any insight helps lol
Last updated on:2026-07-10T00:25:48+05:30
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was he someone who used snapchat a lot while you were together, or is this the first time he's changed anything since the breakup? i'm curious if this fits his usual behavior or if it really is out of nowhere.
really just out of nowhere, he’s not very active on any social media and it really is just so strange to me since on snapchat you’d have to scroll all the way down, find me, click on our saved in chats, and unsave each individual photo when if he wanted it all gone he could have just unadded? he also didn’t delete the snaps i had saved of him during that time period
I think he’s just trying to get your attention
i'd be wondering too. but i had to accept that i was never going to get a clean answer from their online behavior. i stopped treating little social media changes like messages meant for me, and that finally gave my brain a break.
same trying to decode every tiny change because it felt too intentional to ignore. my ex did random stuff like this months later too, and i drove myself CRAZY trying to make it add up.
was there anything specific to the photos that could be hard for him to see? or maybe it just being around the time of the break up made it difficult
just my face haha, and yeah i guess maybe timing? but to me it just doesn’t really support his whole “i’ve moved on” attitude 🤷♀️