ok so in 2 hours it will be day 2. But I have to be honest, we did talk yesterday. He rang me and I answered. I'm going to keep it as day 2 however because, I honestly need to feel like I made some progress and I kept it very matter of fact, got some stuff off my chest and felt mentally ready when we hung up. I also didn't reset the counter because I was driving and now im all confused and it will be messed up. I know it probably doesn't make sense... lol. but it makes sense to me.
My best friend is in town today who I haven't seen in months, we are going out tonight. Tomorrow I head off for a 4 day work conference in a warmer part of Australia. ( its winter here) so im hoping the 3 day bump will be less excruciating.
Anyway. Will check in tomorrow. 🫶
Last updated on:2026-07-12T18:45:37+05:30
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sometimes closure actually makes the healing process quicker. you can do this!
i'm glad you've got plans instead of sitting at home staring at your phone. my best days were the ones where i had people around me, even if i still thought about my ex every five minutes. i hope tonight gives your brain a little break.
It did. it was nice.
after that call, do you feel more at peace or did it pull you back in a bit? i'm curious which way it landed for you.
more at peace actually.
i actually did the same thing once. i answered the call, didn't count it as starting over, and i needed that mentally. if calling it day 2 helps you keep moving, i'd keep going
Thanks so much 🫶
hope the travel keeps your mind busy tomorrow! maybe pick out a good book to read or movie to watch during the wait time, so that you have something to do instead of reaching for your phone to text/call. good luck and safe travels!
Thanks so much. He was always my airport drop off and pick up person. I have already booked transport. Yes I need to find a great book. I'll do that today. 🤩
Girl you are so strong you can do it.he just don’t deserve you❤️🩹
Thanks Girl. Yeah I know this. He knows it too. lol 🥰
@FrostJet725 He know this because it’s truee💕
I have also set my counter since the last time I reached out to her, not the last time she reached out to me. I think thats fine, since you are teaching your nervous system we dont reach out to this person anymore. We don't know what the future holds. Maybe down the line something can work, but right now we have detach from this toxic dynamic and heal.
Yeah. I really wish he was a jerk, I feel like it would make letting go so much easier. But then maybe it wouldn't. who knows. Just gotta keep myself busy. Gold Coast tomorrow. it will be a welcome distraction. 🫶