Why breaking contact was the hardest goodbye for me

so me and my ex broke up in April but ever since then we’ve been IN contact and it’s been the worst thing ever, today we finally said our goodbyes and i think it’s for real this time because he’s starting camp soon for school and I’m already gonna start my first year in college (we go to different schools) I really wanna move on to this new chapter of my life but I can’t help but think about him 24/7 and hope that in the future God brings us back. it makes me sick to my stomach when I think about him moving on or being with someone else does anyone have any tips?

Last updated on:2026-07-10T17:44:12+05:30

Comments (5)

KingFollet
KingFollet 2 wks ago

the part about him being with someone else... i remember making myself sick over that too.

witchaus
witchaus 2 wks ago

we kept talking after the breakup and every conversation gave me hope all over again. the goodbye hurt like hell, but it was the first time i actually had a chance to heal.

Bluebeing
Bluebeing 2 wks ago

do you feel like you're grieving the relationship, or the future you pictured with him? i asked myself that once and my answer surprised me.

Sugar
Sugar 2 wks ago

I'm also going through the same....we broke up 16days ago and we've been in contact ever since and have been decided to stay as friends but we act like more than friends. We really loved each other but situation was something that made him take this decision of breakup and I was shattered but I gathered courage to accept it. Feels like we're trying to heal eachother's wounds that we've created.

HappyJourney319

I am going through the same pain. my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday and I am craving his company and his presence.