Why do i still think about him after the breakup?

we broke up in April but were in contact until like last week and we ended on good terms like today i posted on insta and he liked my post but we don’t follow each other and i guess it does bring me relief that we still have respect for each other but i miss him sm and i wish we were sm more than Js viewing stories and liking posts. i cant stop thinking about him and I can’t help but wonder if he’s thinking about me when I’m thinking abt him

Last updated on:2026-07-14T21:59:12+05:30

Comments (4)

orphell1
orphell1 2 wks ago

do you miss the way it felt when you two were still part of each other's everyday life? i asked myself that once and the answer surprised me.

Sun833
Sun833 2 wks ago

myself that a like is just a like, i had to stop letting every little online interaction decide how my whole day felt.

OneLove
OneLove 2 wks ago

I think the hardest thing after a breakup is accepting what happened. Liking posts, viewing stories and stuff, it gives hope. But you both have to be willing to be in it, for it to work. I think if you really want to know what he thinks, there is really only one way to do it. But you have to be sure it’s what you want too, and not just the feelings taking over.

ibangwar
ibangwar 2 wks ago

my ex and i stayed friendly online too, and every like or view gave me this tiny bit of hope. it made it so much harder to accept that we weren't together anymore.