please explain and help me
the night before our first break up we were fine and laughing and happy, then he broke up with me and then we got back together overnight. He broke up with me again cuz he was so tired and mentally suffering without clarity, he even told me there's no hope, everything has to end, a week later he came back and started talking, we planned to meet up and talk. The same week we were supposed to meet up he asked for 6 months break because he felt so tired. I love him but I can't wait anymore so I told him I'm walking away but he stopped me, I walked away but couldn't help but reach out again, then he pushed me away he even said he felt nothing and he's numb, that's when I blocked him. every time he blocks me everywhere, he unblock me somewhere, and every time I block him, he leaves a place where no one is blocked. did he stop loving me (we were so so deep in love)?? why did he leave??
Last updated on:2026-07-16T18:08:12+05:30
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i remember begging for clarity from someone who was too overwhelmed to give it, and the waiting slowly became the thing hurting me most.
when he said he felt nothing and was numb, did he say he stopped loving you, or did he say he couldn’t handle the relationship anymore? those two things feel so different.
i’ve been in that place where someone i loved kept coming back and leaving again, and every goodbye felt like starting the heartbreak all over. that back and forth can break you
it sounds like he's using you when it convenient for him. It's easy for him to run back to you and stop you from moving on when its convenient for him but the moment he doesnt need you as much, he just pushes you away. That's a toxic attachment and its a method called the "push and pull". It's a way to keep you stuck and leave your brain wondering which prevents you from moving on because you're constantly questioning. You'll be okay love i promise
thank you sweet angel ❤️❤️