He cheated on me our entire relationshio with his ex, i forgave him but couldnt move on from it so eventually we broke up on 2 April, we were in contact for a longggg while after that like I still went to his house etc. One day I went there saw another girls necklace and in a way I knew he didnt owe me anything but it made me really sad. I asked him and he said its his friends girlfriends necklace which makes 9 sense but always, on the 3rd May I decided this back and forth emotional texting one day and not the next is stopping me from healing so I sent him a long msg saying im gonna block him but I still love him etc. He was okay with that. I opened Instagram around 2 weeks later and see he posted with his ex [the girl he cheated on me with multiple times] and my heart just broke. He promised me 1000000 times that even if we were to break up he would never go back and all that stuff. Im truly struggling
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all of you are stronger than you think. write down. all the good qualities on a piece of paper on the other side write all the bad. see which one outweighs the other and then you have your answer
no its not that she's a better fit for him. he will still continue to cheat on her. and he will nvr stop. he will do the sane thing to you then make you feel like he was insane he cant live without you and try to come back. its a never ending cycle its been 8 years of this between me and her. and I told myself if he did it again this was the very last time. as hurtful as it is to see them with them they dont love them either. the truth is they love themselves period
i think blocking him on may 3 was the first choice that was actually for YOU. i know seeing that post felt like someone ripped the wound open again, but every time i went back after broken promises, i just ended up bleeding longer.
thank you sweet stranger <3
when you saw that post with his ex, did it feel like you were grieving the breakup all over again, or like all the trust you tried so hard to rebuild just disappeared in one second?
it definitely felt like all the trust I tried to rebuild all disappeared, I mean I forgave him multiple times for cheating on me as he was my first love and first experiences for many things and I kept trying to work on myself so so hard and rebuild the trust. I put in soooo much effort, spent nights crying, angry at myself for not being able to just forget and then after all of his promises that he wpuld never go back, I finally started believing him. Seeing that post was like all my walls crushed down, I wasted time and I just got hurt again. I get angry at myself for not knowing better you know.
my ex kept saying she'd never go back to the person who hurt us, then she did exactly that. i spent weeks wondering if any of it was real. that kind of shock stays with you for a while
oh definitely, its been about 2 months now since I found out and I still think about it every single day, every second. Some days it hurts like it just happened, other days I accept it and other days I just get so upset.
my ex went back to his ex the one he constantly cheated on me with like you. I believe they will always br together bc she let's him do it and of course we will never be OK with that. so I just have to let him go its been 21 days this time and I honestly try to occupy my mind with hobbies until I fall asleep.
we are in the EXACT same position. I told my family earlier today that I believe they are meant for eachother, and will always be together as sickening as that thought is, the reason I say that is because even in their previous relationship he cheated on her, he abused her in some ways, he treated her horribly, he lied to her etc. And yet she still went back to him so a part of me thinks that maybe they just I guess fit together. That thoight breaks me because I thought I was his other half but life is very unfair. All my love to you <3
That guy is a loser! A little boy pretending to bs a man. A fake.Pathetic and weak.
He went back to his ex cause she is not aware he is a major loser or she is one her self and as far as him....she is convienirnt. she is familiar and this way he keeps himself occupied and doesnt have to think of himself as a huge pos which he is. he can keep lying to her and to himself all he wants but your life was spared from years of bullshit.
aw thank you so much love, as much as hearing that hurts alot, I know you are 100% correct. I appreciate your kind words <3
I'm so sorry your going through this. I've been in contact with my ex since our breakup and it's breaking my heart every time we talk. Letting go always sounds easier than actually doing it. I'm here if you need to vent