Why am i still crying 2 months after the breakup?

i missed the person i hoped he'd become, not the relationship i actually had. once i stopped fighting the sadness, it slowly stopped swallowing me.

there something that happened recently, or have the feelings just never really eased since the breakup?

i kept telling myself my ex wasn't right for me either, but i still cried over him for months. knowing someone isn't good for you doesn't switch your heart off overnight.

How long were you together?

HealGrowLove 1 wk ago

a year and a half consistent until 2months ago but it started 6 years ago.

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You need to get up, take your trust in yourself again, and think that is his lost because he lost such a carring person ❤️

I guess it just takes time. im sorry you are hurting. I wish none of us were. 🫶

hi . just left my partner a week ago . 2 days ago were supposed to be our 11 months . You really have to realise everyone's hearts are different. For me I'm a really sensitive person with anxiety who overthinks and my partner couldn't reach out to me and explain when he hurt me . we broke up because of lack of communication. Every day gets better . Yes you will have your good days and bad days but trust me ! your nervous system is so used to the routine of having them around . it just doesn't know how to react . Whether you broke up with your partner or they broke up with you it doesn't mean your not good enough. The way your caring right now proves everything. Move on . Your partner came in your life for a reason ! If it's still meant to be , fate will bring you two back together. But for now , heal yourself . learn that you don't need anyone to love you . God loves you more than enough and as long as you love yourself, you shouldn't be worried. It's good you accepted the fact he isn't right for you . Your mind and heart arent agreeing .But with time , with effort , with affirmations and with support . you can do it !