it's been almost two years and i'm still grieving him or maybe the life we were supposed to have together.
he ended things on august 1 2024 and with that date coming up again i've been feeling everything a little more. the pain isn't as crushing as it was in the beginning but it's still there. i still want a future with him even though he's made it clear he doesn't want the same anymore.
what hurts the most is that he's only interested in being friends with benefits. i want an actual relationship not something halfway. sometimes i'll hint that i still want more and he either changes the subject or ignores it completely. it's exhausting. i'm so tired of hoping for something he isn't willing to give.
Last updated on:2026-07-30T17:33:33+05:30
Comments (5)
Cut ties and move on. No more benefits. Join some NLP chats about self love. Don’t let him use you for his satisfaction.
when you stay friends with benefits with him, do you feel like it gives you comfort in the moment or does it leave you hurting even more after?
holding onto a future i had already pictured with someone, and losing that version of my life felt like losing him all over again. anniversaries can bring all of that back out of nowhere
You just have to cut ties. FWB when one person has a heart in it, will never work. Just got out of one of those after 7 years. Don’t be me.
Have you been doing FWB for 2 years?