My relationship wasn’t bad. Tbh, I always feel happy with him. He was kind and respectful person. 2 months ago, he went to another country for business trip purposes. It started to change after I was angry and jealous of him constantly hanging out with a group of female coworkers. He was angry back instead of shooting me.
We were fighting a lot since then, his affection decreased and I craved more. I became suspicious of him. We broke up last week since I didn’t feel cherished and loved.
He said he was always loved me, but emotional terror that I did during the past 2 months were so hard to be handled by him.
Looking back, I realize instead of attacking him, I should be curious in knowing his friends so that I can create a safe place for him to open up. There were never any sign of him cheating since day 1 of our relationship. I think he is a pretty loyal partner.
I feel anxious because he said to me once that everything was uncertain in our relationship. It made me crazy and anxious everyday.
I hope instead of me vs him, we can fix how we handle the situation. I really hope that.
Last updated on:2026-08-02T03:45:45+05:30
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when he said everything was uncertain in the relationship, did he mean he was unsure about his feelings, or was he talking about how the constant fighting was affecting him?
he said so many situations were uncertain. since then, instead of calming him, I became very anxious and constantly need reassurance. is it too late now to realize this?
i had a relationship where distance and uncertainty brought out the worst in both of us
this is very sad because before, I didn’t notice anything wrong and just enjoying my life
i’ve been the person who got scared of losing someone and started reacting from that fear instead of love. looking back, i realized my anxiety was asking for reassurance, but it came out in ways that pushed him away too.
that’s how I felt. it pushed away him because he was dealing with something as well. What did u wish to be different that I can learn from?