Why didn't my ex ever reach out?

Did I mean nothing?

Last updated on:2026-08-12T03:57:47+05:30

Comments (9)

Mellow
Mellow 2 wks ago

That's not even a question for me. I meant nothing

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 2 wks ago

The silence is an answer. It doesnt define your worth or whether you meant anything. Its your sign to move forward. I wish my ex never reached out, it made everything 100x harder

OpenAir0
OpenAir0 2 wks ago

that silence messes with your head. i had to stop using my ex's lack of contact as a measure of what we had, because it was keeping me stuck every single day.

ByteVibe497
ByteVibe497 2 wks ago

no of course not if that person doesn't reach out it , it doesnt mean they never loved you maybe they loved you alot maybe they still do but they are afraid to reach out but all these are simply speculations at the end of the day you'll never know for sure what they are thinking so for now don't blame yourself ❤️ you are more than enough try and do the things you love and focus on yourself even if it's easier said than done.

joethetard
joethetard 2 wks ago

i keep wondering this too, but do you miss them?

Brokenheartedgirl

yes of course

VibeDream104
VibeDream104 2 wks ago

Mine never reached out either. It’s painful, but if our exes did reach out it would reset all our healing to day 1. It’s a gift, it just doesn’t feel like it.

sufficient7
sufficient7 2 wks ago

my ex never reached out, i kept taking the silence as proof that i meant nothing, and honestly that thought hurt more than the breakup itself.🥺

letitgo_user
letitgo_user 2 wks ago

They chose them over You....now you have to chose yourself