it's miserable I found out checking his phone he's been talking ti someone a while. plus talking g to escorts. he says since he never touched them he didn't cheat. immediately yes you did. I found out he's on dating sites. making actual dates. he says he never went so it's ok. I can't get through to him yea ass your a cheater. what can I say to tell him it's Def a form of cheating. he is now accusing me of sleeping with the neighbor. my life is hell.
Last updated on:2026-08-11T06:12:00+05:30
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time to put together an action plan of leaving
i'd stop trying to convince him to agree with your definition of cheating. i learned the hard way that someone who keeps defending the behavior can argue forever, so i started focusing on what i knew crossed MY boundary.
Why do we normalize this behavior and not put tthe shame on them where it belongs? Why do we let anyone make us doubt our instincts when our body knows the truth. Why do we hold onto someone who clearly left us when the cheating began?
I have been cheated on so manu times my nervous system thinks its normal to alwsys be full of doubt and accepting breadcrumbs thsf I no longer allow it with men who stamp the word LOVE to their behavior but. now I let everyone cheat me one way or the other. The entire time...in my subconscience, I believe this is what I deserve. i am crazy to think there is a man who would be loyal to me. That makes me sad but more angry at all of the shit i made it thri only to walk right back into it with some other guy cause thats whet i attract. pieces of shit who think nothing about the harm fhey caused me.
I have no wbere ti go but im buying stuff off temu so I can stay in my car if need be. a prison sentence is not going ti be my retirement plan.
living under the same roof while finding out things like that is a special kind of hell. mine kept arguing over technicalities too, while i was sitting there feeling completely betrayed
it is hell some days my head isn't off the pillow and he's starting. oh then when I hear c an I ask you a question I completely snap out hectares there like what did I do. yea... im.brtrayed that's the feeling. you are on pint. betrayed abd he doesn't see it.
I’m so sorry. Yes, he absolutely cheated - whether or not there was anything physical. I hope you don’t have to live together much longer.
you're dealing with dating sites, escorts, accusations, and still having to live together. do you have somewhere safe you can stay for a few nights while you figure out what you want to do?
I'm trying to get a hotel room but living in a shore town during the summer it's crazy expensive. im looking ti sa c e for a rv or something to ge t outta here. lol fr. im losing it
Never stay with a cheater. He crossed the line.