Why is my boyfriend still lying to me?

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my boyfriend is still lying to me, cheating, hiding things, and keeping secrets. i'm exhausted, heartbroken, and honestly just angry at this point.
tonight i'm so tempted to give him a taste of his own medicine. if he refuses to be loyal, why should he expect loyalty from me? maybe it's time he finds out what an "open relationship" really feels like. m i doing right?

Last updated on:2026-08-12T07:22:46+05:30

Comments (8)

fluttershy
fluttershy 2 wks ago

no girl,just leave you deserve better

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 2 wks ago

just leave, you will only open yourself up to more hurt and betrayal. Staying in a toxic environment will not do you any good. Set yourself free, you deserve happiness

loserona
loserona 2 wks ago

do you actually want an open relationship, or do you want him to feel the pain he's caused you?

BlazeDash109
BlazeDash109 2 wks ago

no. don't sink to his level. I understand 100% and it's ot like I don't have options but I'm not going to be the pig he is. let him be the pig. let him be the scumbag. don't do it.

Wolf0123
Wolf0123 2 wks ago

i stayed with someone who kept lying and i got so angry i wanted to hurt them back just so they'd understand what they did to me. it only made me feel worse afterward.

SadSugar3
SadSugar3 2 wks ago

It's not worth it. Not worth losing your dignity over a man who's never had none. Don't stoop so low, it won't bring clarity nor happiness. Dump his ass first, block him everywhere, don't take "no" for an answer. then go have fun.

delicusbite1
delicusbite1 2 wks ago

Yeah, dont do that. Just separate. I would say go to couples therapy, but from the sound of it, he doesnt sound like an introspective individual. So opening up may not work. Mid-life crisis does exist and ppl do and say shit out of haste and with no logic.

Brokenheartedgirl

Never go back to a cheater