Why did he say he loved me and then disappear?

i know that kind of whiplash. when someone says they love you and then disappears, i had to stop chasing an explanation they weren't willing to give me.

that sudden switch from “i love you” to “i'll never contact you again” messed with my head for weeks. you keep replaying the last conversation trying to find the moment everything changed.

Is he an avoidant?

did he give you any reason for saying he wouldn't contact you again?

if he does that it means he never cared about you in the first place, I know it feels like shit when someone lovebombs you and you genuinely liked him but that doesn't mean you have to feel bad with yourself, go out and talk with your friends I swear distracting yourself helps a lot 💗