I just realized I can’t stay single or alone. My life revolved around this one guy and now that he’s gone I try to fill that void with someone else. when I don’t find someone else I go back to him. I keep him around. I cannot do this anymorw but I am not sure how to stop begging to be loved! I don’t seem to have great friends or relationships with people so pretty much lonely at this point! help please if you can
Last updated on:2026-08-12T16:36:11+05:30
Comments (6)
after my breakup i kept reaching for anyone who could make the loneliness shut up, and when nobody was there, i went straight back to my ex. that emptiness can feel SO loud.
You don't need love from others, you have to see everything that you need you can give you by yourself. You don't need anything from others.
i know how much “i need to be loved” can swallow everything else. when you go back to him, do you actually want him, or are you desperate for the feeling of having someone there?
You need to pour that love into yourself. You need to be strong on your own two feet without anyone else by your side. Youll create unhealthy attachments otherwise
start loving yourself more
Say to yourself... I love myself. I am enough. You were born alone you will die alone...You have all the power in the world to be alone. first love yourself.