What should i do when my girlfriend is distant?

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my girlfriend went to university about a month ago and I'm in a different country but since she went all she does is just be rude and disrespectful to me and she is 15 weeks pregnant and ever time we argue she leaves the relationship then come back after a week or so and I am tired of that because if someone loves u why do they need to go days without hearing from you when they is already distance where is the love.

Last updated on:2026-08-17T00:46:11+05:30

Comments (9)

KingFollet
KingFollet 7 days ago

i'd stop chasing her when she leaves and have one calm conversation when she's ready.

forbrokenO
forbrokenO 7 days ago

i've been there with the breakup threat every time an argument got hard. mine kept leaving and coming back too, and that constant uncertainty absolutely wrecked me.

shahrukh
shahrukh 7 days ago

what should we do

Monsieur
Monsieur 1 wk ago

i know the distance already hurts, but do you feel like she's actually trying to build a relationship with you right now, or are you mostly holding onto how things used to be?

shahrukh
shahrukh 1 wk ago

just holding on to. someone who doesn't love me

shahrukh
shahrukh 1 wk ago

exactly why is she letting me go knowing that she is pregnant I don't understand she looks for fights then she runs and tells me she's done with me

Monick
Monick 1 wk ago

I think it pregnancy hormone so I think you should just text her every day that you are self aware and never letting go

shahrukh
shahrukh 1 wk ago

but how can you text someone that's telling you to fuck off and they don't love you? why should I beg her to be with me if she doesn't want me

FunkWave964
FunkWave964 1 wk ago

@shahrukh let her go. I dont know why I feel she s cheating. or just wants to get rid of you