so I've been dating my girlfriend for about 5 months now and she's now at university and I am in a different country but everytime we get into a argument she runs and tells me she's done with me then after a week she comes back and the cycle always happens and this girl is 15 weeks pregnant with my child and shes treating me like I mean nothing she even told me she doesn't love me.... how can you love a person that can go weeks without speaking to you and they is already distance between u guys because she lives so far I don't know what to do guys help me 🙏
Last updated on:2026-08-16T19:41:56+05:30
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when she says she doesn't love you, does she mean she wants to end the relationship completely, or does she still want you involved with the pregnancy?
yea meaning she's done with me but wants to keep the child
my ex used to end things every time we argued, then come back like nothing happened
I am in Zimbabwe and shes studying in India
Try changing the way you handle arguments. Explain to her how exhausting this constant back-and-forth is for you. When she gets really angry, maybe she should try calming down instead of immediately talking about breaking up, and you could give each other a few hours to think before continuing the argument. From what I understand, she uses breaking up as an escape during arguments and then comes back once she calms down. Changing this pattern might help.
Also, she is pregnant. She may naturally be more emotional or irritable during this time. If you want to be there for her throughout the pregnancy, you may need to be more understanding sometimes. You both need to learn not to turn every problem into an argument and to understand the real issue before raising your voices at each other.
give her a time ig, maybe shes stressed of this situation, if I may ask how far is she?
she's 15 weeks pregnant
@shahrukh i meant the distance
@Wika0912 she's studying in India and I am in Zimbabwe