How i lost myself in the relationship: day 21

stopping the pressure to be happy again and just doing one tiny thing each day that belonged to me, even when it felt pointless.

what do you miss most about the person you were before him?

looking back at my life before my ex and thinking, how the hell did i get so far away from that version of m

me too

Same. I thought I was not but seems like I was better off without him.

And you were happy with him, too. You have good loving memories, and that made you stay everyday. But whatever changes that, helps you to understand more about love, You protect yourself by distancing from him. Make no mistake, life is always like this. You loved someone the beautiful and intense way. It's not our fault when someone doesn't know how to love us like that. But would that stop you from craving the feeling you had before, because it didn't end the way you needed, and deserved? Feel sad, feel frustrated. It's the healing process. But by God, when you're ready (and that will be an ordinary day): Let yourself feel LOVE again. ❤️‍🩹

and you will be happy after him, because the happiness still lives inside of you

I hear you! Sometimes stuff happens to make you stronger. Take time to clear out all the crap he left, and did to you. You will be happy again!