Hey guys, he called me today. I was just wondering, because its almost 3 weeks nc, and we never nc more than 3 weeks. Its saturday, so he called me because he wasnt at work and got bored.
but you know what its confusing me?
These days I prayed like this :"if we will not have anything in the future together, please stop him from reaching out, and make me forget about him." I started missing him, but I thought thats just my journey phase, but him coming back?
Maybe its a test, because it always happened like that. He didnt even tried a little bit more, just one call, I didnt answer, and thats all.
What you guys think..
Last updated on:2026-08-24T05:00:43+05:30
Comments (9)
If he cared about contacting you, he would have shown it more. Even with a stupid message. So don't waste your time on someone who doesn't put in the effort to get you back and treats you like entertainment
thank you💞
i'd try not to give the call a meaning yet. you didn't answer, and he hasn't followed up, so i'd let his actions tell you more than your hopes do. the nc was giving you some peace, and i'd protect that for now.
Thank you, it means a lot coming from that gender. Thats what Im doing, I know he was just bored and wanted to see if I give up. What do you think..should I hope a little we change? or just..called it and end.
i'd be curious about this part, when you saw his call, did you feel more excited that he wanted you back or more scared that you'd get pulled into the same cycle again?
the second one. I was just disgusted that he is calling me out of boredom, and its not the first time
getting that one random call after weeks of silence and immediately turning it into a sign that everything was changing, when really it was just one call. i would've been confused too
im proud of you for not answering. If you really want to move on, you made the right choice. When they reach out it confuses us even more
Yes!