Why can't i move on after nine months?

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It has been over nine months since we stopped talking but I'm still stuck in a deep phase of yearning. The pain still hits me intensely out of nowhere—I'll feel a sudden crushing heaviness in my chest and a throbbing sensation through my head.
All I want is a single phone call from her but she isn't making any effort to communicate with me.
Would it be a mistake to reach out and call her for a fourth time?

Last updated on:2026-10-06T05:25:11+05:30

Comments (8)

Sentimental
Sentimental 2 wks ago

You are doing this bcz your brain is wired to do that, change your thoughts. Remind yourself what you did and what did you receive which made you go for no contact in first place

phoenix26
phoenix26 2 wks ago

Did you call her 3 times in 9 months or just today

MainLength0
MainLength0 2 wks ago

My ex is doing this and it’s fucking annoying.

FrostDash380
FrostDash380 2 wks ago

do what u think is good

HumnPudingx
HumnPudingx 2 wks ago

Because you keep picking the wound. Thats why it won’t heal. If you keep picking a scab it leaves a permanent mark

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 2 wks ago

please dont. Her silence is the answer you are looking for

justkata
justkata 2 wks ago

You contacted her 4 times already?

TurboZip167
TurboZip167 2 wks ago

Yeah probably. Not to be mean..