day 42
day 42 and i feel relieved,even tho i got a text from him two weeks ago telling me how he was talking to someone else, which means he was talking to her while we were talking,i feel good,i am finding myself again,i am knowing myself way better and learning to love every part of me.I noticed what kind of person he was for real,he was not the person i thought,it was only my imagination.I am noticing every blessing and being thankful for everything happening in my life,i am seeing that life is much more than just him,and i am learning to enjoy every moment of life,and letting myself feel everything.❤️
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do you ever catch yourself missing the idea of him more than the real him? i used to confuse those two all the time before it finally clicked.
keep doing exactly that noticing the little blessings, the tiny wins. that’s what helped me the most. some days it’ll still sting, but that new self-awareness? that’s gold. don’t lose it.
i remember the moment i realized my ex wasn’t who i thought he was either. it’s wild how much peace comes once that illusion cracks. it’s like you finally start breathing again. i’m proud of you for getting to this point
After how much time did it start getting easier? 🥺i’m hoping I can feel like this eventually
i think the key is just when you start focusing on yourself,try to see the goods that happen around you,and be aware of the good parts you have as a person,think of what you can do better,and accept things as they come,try to see the goods in everything and you will believe that life is enjoyable with or without them,you understand that you yourself is enough❤️
Day 42??? That is big!!! Well done♥️
very good everything is a lesson in life