I'm on day 108. it's been tough I don't want to lie.when I'm sober I don't even think about him.the problem is when I'm drunk I think about him so much to the point I can't control myself.ive decided to stop alcohol for 6 months until I see progress but I'm glad I managed to make it to day 108
Last updated on:2026-05-20T12:48:43+05:30
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I understand the first message can feel like cold calling—what if I sweeten it up with a warm invite for coffee instead?
hey I know it's been a while but yes if you are still available
u doing good job stop drink try write journal u feel it's ok miss thnk it's hard try talk u friend u feel
when you’re drunk and thinking about him, is it more missing the person… or missing how you felt when you were with him?
i feel lonely end up missing good and bad memories.
i’m proud of you for deciding to pause drinking. that’s self-awareness.
i was fine during the day too. gym, work, distractions. but the second i drank, it was like my brain unlocked a hidden folder of memories and suddenly i “missed him” so bad i’d almost text. alcohol made everything 10x louder. so yeah… day 108 is HUGE. especially knowing your triggers and still choosing yourself. that’s strength fr
so I don't want to bring those memories and feelings back.i choose to quit alcohol for a while
I think it's best to leave alcohol for a while until you heal fully