We are speaking after 15 days, and he didn’t even try to stop me or understand my feelings. He was just being logical, but I needed him to understand how much I was hurting emotionally. He is struggling, and I told him that if he had just treated me well, I would have stayed by his side regardless of money or the hardships he is facing. Even after saying that, he is leaving me, claiming my behavior is 'wrong.' I accept that I can be childish and talk a lot sometimes, but that is who I am. He knows my feelings and everything about me, yet he still chooses logic over us.
Last updated on:2026-03-16T09:22:32+05:30
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I screwed up . He literally disappeared for 3 days . He text me his usual I love you and I miss you . I shot every insult I could . I'm over this .
really tough love her, cut him off completely, delete the photos (or hide them) get rid of the momentos, and even ask him to block you so that you can't reach back out.
your healing should not involve him, you need to heal on your own with the help of people who love you. I promise you'll get through this and that one day you will find someone who loves you and understands you
You just need to calm yourself, let your self deattach to him or to all things that may connect you to him. It really a help for you to think and let yourself understand whats goin on. Because if your partner is narrow minded or he never validate your feelings whats the point of talking to her… Its not about the money or problem maybe its about him
this sounds really painful. when he says your behavior is “wrong,” does he ever actually explain what he means, or does he just shut the conversation down when you try to share how much you’re hurting?
he just ignores me
i’ve been on the other side of this kind of ending, and honestly the thing that helped me was stepping back and letting their choice be their choice. if someone sees your emotions as “wrong,” you start shrinking yourself just to keep them, and that gets exhausting fast.
hmm telling my ex the same thing, that if he had just been kinder i would’ve stayed through every struggle with him. feeling like your love wasn’t even fought for… that part cuts deep
I never wanted to leave him. I never but now I just hate him. he is disgusting he is disgusting