I stopped counting when it hit around 30 days after 1 year of on and off with my ex. Till date she still reaches out, calls me, message me but I never revert. She still thinks I'm the one who did wrong to her, but only I know what I suffered. I used to have panic attacks after my break up as she left me. Time is the biggest healer. You need to think that it's not the end of the world, there's still alot in life that I need to focus on. it's 100 days now, already dating a very good woman. I'm happy now. it's peace.
Last updated on:2026-04-01T00:03:49+05:30
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do you feel fully at peace now, or does a part of you still get pulled when she tries to contact you?
I'm fully at peace, but inner me also want her to live her life fully and move forward.
not replying saved me too. once i stopped engaging, my head finally got quiet and i could actually move forward without getting pulled back every time they reached out.
i had that on and off cycle too and the panic after it ended was REAL. getting to a place where you don’t reply anymore takes so much strength, i remember how hard that was.
nice