past few days, the silence has been hitting me hard again. its like im facing reality of the break up again.
all the empty promises he made of wanting to grow up together make me wonder if they were ever true, and if he meant it would he come back even though i doubt so.
this never ending cycle sucksđź«©đź«©
Last updated on:2026-03-30T13:09:03+05:30
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you feel like it’s the silence itself that’s hitting you, or the memories of what he said he’d be in your life?
that wave coming back out of nowhere hurts so bad. i went through that same loop where i kept replaying his promises and wondering if any of it was real, it messes with your head in the worst way
you are enough and dont need validation ... you are worthy of love and love will find you. People will fail you over and over but your heart is pure and love will align perfectly with you in due time trust and believe
my husband blamed me for his unhappiness, told me in a text he hadnt been in love with me for over a year, then thru a phone call told me the next stepnwas divorce. the day before a planned outting. then upon arriving home, all his stuff was gone except his house keys and his wedding ring. that happened 55 days ago or so. I can completely relate to those feelings coming back up after some time has passed. the hardest part for me is that we were supposed to be best friends first, before husnamd and wife, and he hasn't contacted me once to see if im okay. that hurts so much. we are not only grieving a person, but a lifestyle, and past, and a future that was promised to us. keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know youre not alone friend ❤️ we all have to lean on each other during this transition in our lives ❤️
Thats so true omg