How i finally let go after nc

202 days of consistency. 1 relapse, I didn't contact him just checked his socials. 2 resisted. Today I am choosing to let go of it all. I have healed and moved on with my life. It has been a great journey let it go fam. If I did it I believe everyone else can detach and find better. I found better. I am happy where I am. I am loved and appreciated. I don't have to pretend or put efforts, it all comes effortlessly from this one. I wish all of you well 😍.May y'all heal and find peace. Always remember that better exists.

Last updated on:2026-04-20T18:19:42+05:30

Comments (9)

blondebitch
blondebitch 4 wks ago

what changed for you the most that made you finally feel like you were done for real?

BraveNew475
BraveNew475 4 wks ago

I stopped hoping that I'll bump into him, I stopped longing for him. It took time that's one thing I know for sure. Before I could even know I had unloved him. I choose myself, put myself first and I was happy. Then I found a good man, or rather he found me and I'm so happy

Joocey00
Joocey00 4 wks ago

i get that one relapse can mess with your head, but i learned to treat it like a small bump not a reset.

bookworm
bookworm 4 wks ago

counting days like that too. i had a slip where i checked his socials and felt awful after, but it didn’t erase all the work i’d done. seeing you at 202 days and choosing yourself like this feels BIG

Bambi254
Bambi254 4 wks ago

This is so encouraging ... It gives me hope that I'll get over him too.

BraveNew475
BraveNew475 4 wks ago

you will Hun. Press on

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 4 wks ago

I am so proud and happy for you!! You deserve to be loved in the way you need. Live the beautiful life you've always deserved

BraveNew475
BraveNew475 4 wks ago

thank you so much. I wish you the best as well 😍

FrostTap906
FrostTap906 4 wks ago

nice