Why does he keep coming back if he doesn't prioritize me?

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so I broke up with him 8 months ago and then came back, he was on and off with me and then 2 months ago he blocked me out of nowhere and just ignored every single message i sent. 2 days ago he came back and we started dating again but i keep overthinking about him. i asked him if he could sometimes say no to his friends and make me his priority and just spend time with me and he said that he likes spending time with them more. and that’s not all, i also told him that i wanna tell my mom about him and he told me not to?
i dont get him at all anymore, he wants me but doesnt want to make me his priority? am i rushing? What should i do?

Last updated on:2026-04-24T05:22:03+05:30

Comments (3)

dyana03
dyana03 6 days ago

do you feel like you’re actually happy with him right now, or just scared to lose him again?

Aalhabole
Aalhabole 6 days ago

when someone straight up says they’d rather spend time with friends than you, i had to take that at face value.

Athlete861
Athlete861 6 days ago

i’ve been in that on and off loop where he come back just enough to keep you hooked but never fully choose you. i remember asking for basic time and feeling like i was asking for TOO much