115 days of no contact. Ended up going to his mom's place after some sad news, he showed up, same old guy. Just totally unaware of anything. I think tonight really showed that the work I am putting into myself is so worth it. None of this is for 'us' anymore, its for me. He did try to wait for me to say I love you when he left but I didnt. I spent the rest of the night with his mom and had a nice night, thats all I can say for any of that.
I did not regress back into the person I was before the NC, I am stronger and wiser for showing up as me now, and seeing he still has not changed. I still have so much love for him, but he'll never know, and thats his fault, not mine.
Here's to 0 days of no contact!
Last updated on:2026-04-27T21:33:40+05:30
Comments (8)
the fact you didn’t say “i love you” says a lot, i couldn’t do that for the longest time.
Oh he tried making plans too with me, I just declined, tried to take me home too and I declined that also. I generally went over to see his mom, of course there was a part of me that wanted to see him, but when I did I kinda just got the "ick" all over again.
That's fantastic! You must have felt proud that you had made the right decision 115 days ago.
Yes! My NC goes back to day 1 but thats fine. I know im a different person then the first time I went no contact. Not even concerned with paying attention to the days either, im just over the non sense.
breaking no contact set you back at all or did it actually give you that closure you didn’t have before?
Honestly, it gave me alot of closure. This was the first time seeing him this year, he knows he blocked, which makes it weird af. He tried making plans with me, but if I know anything from last year, its just empty promises and breadcrumbing, didnt fall for any if that. It gave me the closure to know that after all this time apart, he just doesnt care, or atleast is pretending he doesnt. His mom told me he wanted to talk to me, but im there in the flesh and its nothing but surface level. I just feel done with it now.
i broke no contact once after months and seeing him act exactly the same snapped something in me too. it hurts but it also makes things so clear, like damn nothing really changed
THIS. Theres a part of me that just cant even believe I was in a relationship with someone for so long that just is clearly emotionally irresponsible, immature, and unaware. Good luck to him cause God knows hes going to need it.