His birthday is in a month. Since he's the one who broke up with me but we have the same friends, if he throws a party but doesn't invite me, is that wrong?
Last updated on:2026-04-29T18:37:02+05:30
Is it wrong if he doesn't invite me to his birthday party?
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are you more upset about maybe not being invited, or what it would mean socially with the shared friend group after?
if he’s the one hosting, i had to remind myself they do get to choose who feels comfortable there.
this would sting for me too. i’ve been in that weird post-breakup friend group limbo where every invite or non-invite feels loaded with meaning, and it HURTS more than people realize.
It's not wrong,and be prepared for that so later it will not hurt you anymore.
It’s not wrong. He shouldn’t invite you unless both of you agreed to be friends after the breakup.
but that would exclude me of our commun group ... if it is me i will not do that
@DashWave926 that’s just how breakups work honey. The same friends will go to your party and you don’t invite him. You both need to be no contact now to heal and move on and you shouldn’t put your friends in an uncomfortable position.