Should i face my ex at the bar?
This weekend, our mutual group of friends suggested going to a bar. Normally I go because my ex usually doesn’t come, but this time he will be there. I think I’ve accepted that it’s over, but I
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Seeing my ex at every party is exhausting
My main problem is that I’m forced to see him every party. I’d rather we either stayed friends or stopped seeing each other completely, because this distance and awkwardness are exhausting. After
Was i a toxic partner? reflecting on my relationship mistakes
* i would get upset when he didn’t put hearts or our usual “good morning” and “good night” messages in every text, because for 5 years I was used to it, and when he stopped, it made me panic
Why can't i stop regretting my relationship mistakes?
I can't get over my regrets. I know that for the past five years, my lateness was driving him crazy. He made me promise I wouldn't be late for the civil partnership ceremony. The result: I arrived 45
Why is it so hard to move on after a breakup?
It's so hard spending time with our mutual friends. He talks about my ex all the time. I know he didn't come to the party today because he's avoiding me. How sad it is after five years to avoid each o
Why do i feel so lost after my breakup?
Today I woke up with the realization that our story was truly over, and it filled me with a deep sense of anxiety. I know people change, that sometimes feelings fade, and I also know that being someon
Is it wrong if he doesn't invite me to his birthday party?
His birthday is in a month. Since he's the one who broke up with me but we have the same friends, if he throws a party but doesn't invite me, is that wrong?
Why did he leave me? coping with guilt and fear
He left after 5 years because I was lazy. He was a wonderful, active man. How can I stop feeling guilty? And how can I stop being afraid of not finding someone better?
Why did he leave me for someone else?
I learned that he'd been having doubts for over a year, even before the civil partnership. In fact, it was all a lie. I believed in a future together, while he was slowly and silently withdrawing. But
Why did he lie about staying friends?
He told me during the breakup that we would stay on good terms, but he no longer comes to our group outings, and last time, at a birthday party, he didn't even mention the evening. I went to see him t
Why do they all seem so mean after a breakup?
Tell me, I know that people who lose their feelings often distance themselves, becoming cold and distant, but do they all become mean to their partners, like belittling them, telling them they're anno
How do i move on when my ex is always around?
Tell me how I can forget him and stop suffering when I only see him once a month at parties. It breaks my heart to see him laughing and moving on, avoiding me after everything we've been through in th
Lost my confidence after a breakup: what now?
My ex of five years left me a month ago. His reason: he hadn't felt love for seven months but didn't know why. I suspected as much; he'd been neglecting me for a few months. I lost my self-confidence.