a few months ago i got really close to a married coworker. we talked every day even after she left the job saying she was pregnant. it felt real constant texts long talks a few lunches and dinners sometimes just us. people questioned her pregnancy but i always stood by her.
one night she texted me right after a fight with her husband said they broke up and she might get an abortion. it shook me i told her to take her time and i’d be there. she said she’d reply the next day but instead she acted like nothing happened talking about going to the beach. then a day later she said she might go to the hospital for it but hours later she was posting herself out drinking. it didn’t make sense.
i tried to check on her she said she’d call and explain but never did. then she posted something about not needing men and went quiet on me. now i’m stuck wondering if any of it was real or if she’s just going through something and pushing me away.
Last updated on:2026-05-07T00:25:05+05:30
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she was ever actually available to you, or were you always kind of on the outside of her real life?
i hate to say it but the mixed stories and disappearing act would’ve been my sign to step back.
this feels so confusing… i got pulled into something like this once, late night talks, feeling like i mattered, then suddenly it was like i never existed
Maybe she has mental health problems. I used to be a good person, I think, but now I'm horrible