looking back I do believe it when people say “time will heal” now, because honestly I am not sad about the breakup anymore. Just bittersweet about the memories but no heavy heart, no feelings. Just a little nostalgic but I think I can say that I don’t crave love as much as I did before anymore and I am alot happier than I did four months ago. I never want to feel howni felt during those worst times ever again and I am proud of my healing🙂 This time, I stopped stalking any social media, not going and will never send a text ever again unless he reach out first, deleted all the chats(last month) and I hope I will stop hoping to accidentally bump into him anymore. I just don’t feel anything for him as much as I used to anymore too and I feel really at peace now. I hope I don’t relapse 🙏
Last updated on:2026-05-22T09:20:37+05:30
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i’m ngl this felt really comforting to read. i remember the exact moment i realized i hadn’t checked his socials in days and my chest didn’t tighten anymore. that quiet peace after months of chaos feels HUGE 🤍
relapse thoughts still happen sometimes.
what do you think changed the most for you these last few months? was there a specific moment where you felt yourself finally letting go a little?
I felt id never get to 100 days! well done, such an achievement 👏 cant wait to hit that mark. I do think the total blocking helps. no social media posts, no WhatsApp pic to look at. This has helped loads. my healing was slow at first. Still have the odd wobble. Keep going. you are both so strong 💪
so if you've not relapsed and stalk their socials and stuff...I'm on 106 days aswell so i want to know.
that's really good to hear hun, keep going strong.. as for me, even though it has been 100 days of nc...i still think of him everyday. i may not be as helplessly in love with him as i used to be, i may even be thankful for the current state of my life..but there are days like today, that i still remember his smile, laughter, act andlooks and shed a few tears...especially when one of those days, i meet a new person and think of them as nice and try to move forward, but i keep finding my self resisting to move forward, refusing to let go. i still can't imagine nor picture a life without him, my heart won't truly move on yet... but i hope i will get to see that day soon😔