Why you shouldn't text your ex after a breakup

this isn’t a vent post this is me calling you OUUUTT. do not text that man slash woman that you miss them. even if they reply back. even if you think it’s been a while. don’t do it. don’t send those words. don’t say it.

Last updated on:2026-05-18T02:27:05+05:30

Comments (9)

museroxx
museroxx 7 days ago

what happened after you texted them? because this sounds VERY much like someone speaking from experience lol

infinitejax
infinitejax 7 days ago

okay look man…………..

Aware010
Aware010 7 days ago

if they wanted to rebuild things, they would. i kept mistaking temporary loneliness for signs we were meant to get back together and it messed me up for months.

infinitejax
infinitejax 7 days ago

oh I hit him with that one today. I completely get thus

ruschkikov
ruschkikov 7 days ago

i learned this the hard way 😭 every “i miss you” text gave me like 10 minutes of relief and then DAYS of confusion after. especially when she replied just enough to keep me attached.

CozyCloud353

but I'm fighting it really hard with everything in me because all I can think of is her beautiful curly hair

infinitejax
infinitejax 1 wk ago

i know, i understand. write what you want to say but don’t send it.

DreamyWay697

hard agree!!! I draft msgs and voice notes in my notes app and set days in my calendar of when to send them. The day comes and I never actually send them, because my brain and nervous system tend to calm down by the time comes around and im like nooooo he doesn't deserve my energy

infinitejax
infinitejax 1 wk ago

THISSSS!!