Why you shouldn't text your ex after a breakup

this isn’t a vent post this is me calling you OUUUTT. do not text that man slash woman that you miss them. even if they reply back. even if you think it’s been a while. don’t do it. don’t send those words. don’t say it.

Last updated on:2026-05-18T02:27:05+05:30

Comments (9)

museroxx
museroxx 4 wks ago

what happened after you texted them? because this sounds VERY much like someone speaking from experience lol

infinitejax
infinitejax 4 wks ago

okay look man…………..

Aware010
Aware010 4 wks ago

if they wanted to rebuild things, they would. i kept mistaking temporary loneliness for signs we were meant to get back together and it messed me up for months.

infinitejax
infinitejax 4 wks ago

oh I hit him with that one today. I completely get thus

ruschkikov
ruschkikov 4 wks ago

i learned this the hard way 😭 every “i miss you” text gave me like 10 minutes of relief and then DAYS of confusion after. especially when she replied just enough to keep me attached.

CozyCloud353
CozyCloud353 4 wks ago

but I'm fighting it really hard with everything in me because all I can think of is her beautiful curly hair

infinitejax
infinitejax 4 wks ago

i know, i understand. write what you want to say but don’t send it.

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 4 wks ago

hard agree!!! I draft msgs and voice notes in my notes app and set days in my calendar of when to send them. The day comes and I never actually send them, because my brain and nervous system tend to calm down by the time comes around and im like nooooo he doesn't deserve my energy

infinitejax
infinitejax 4 wks ago

THISSSS!!