I've finally moved on enough in my life and want to put myself out there again, but I want to do it right this time. i dated someone after her, it didn't last long but it didn't feel right after so I wasnt affected by it ending. How do I find or create something natural again? and properly?
Last updated on:2026-06-26T21:05:38+05:30
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i'm glad you're giving yourself another shot.
after my breakup i tried dating too soon too, and even the nice people just didn't feel right. when it finally happened naturally again, i wasn't chasing that spark anymore, i was just getting to know someone one conversation at a time.
Thats what im looking for, something natural but I dont know how to let that happen again. Like I've talked to a few girls and dated someone after but those are all girls I hit up and initiated the contact. It just doesnt feel natural
both. im not closed off anymore and I wouldn't like a repeat of my ex at all but I want to get to know someone to know of itll be like that
do you feel like you're excited to meet someone again, or are you more worried about repeating what happened with your ex?