every time he blocks me everywhere he leaves one place where he unblock me, now when he unblocked me everywhere and we talked then left me again and I blocked him everywhere he unblocked on one place where he’s not blocked and I can’t block him unless I’m unblocked (snap). WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??? WHY IS HE DOING THAT IF HE SAYS HE DOESNT WANT ME ANYMORE??
Last updated on:2026-07-17T05:46:10+05:30
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my ex doing stuff like this and it drove me crazy. he'd leave one tiny door open, then disappear again, and i spent so much time trying to figure out what it MEANT instead of seeing how exhausted i was.
I feel u it’s so exhausting it’s like they enjoy all the begging, crying, and suffering.
when he comes back after blocking and unblocking you, does he actually try to work things out, or does it always end with him leaving again?
it always ends with him leaving
Sounds like both of you know that love isn't enough, even when you want to be together. Sometimes we want things that hurt us and don't make us feel better. You need to stop looking for those signals and look into yourself, reflect on what you would like to do. These are choices that you can make on your own without depending on him or others. This is a task only for you. It hurts a lot, and social media doesn't make things easy. I'm sorry you are going through this. It isn't easy, never gets easier, but is a process of learning and growing.
I think love is more than enough, because when you love someone you make it work :/ we were so happy then idk what happened
@user82637382 I hear you! From my perspective, love isn't enough because people love in different ways based on their lives, experiences, personalities, etc. The actions that people take for themselves are based on what makes them who they are. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses (good communication skills, good listener, noble, good character, etc.). If they or you struggle and are not able to understand where the missing pieces are, love is not going to be enough because something will be missing. Two different entities trying to get together but not able to connect hurts, and at that time people start feeling that they need to find what is missing in a different place.
In this case, I think that he likes your attention and likes to have an open door in case things don't go the way he wants. You deserve more!!!
he's playing with you :( he keeps around cuz he likes having someone loving him
I was thinking that too :/
Exactly!
he’s playing in ur face
what do you mean??
@user82637382 he probably still misses a part of you and he keeps you attached knowing that if anything happens he can just get back u in his life
@mms1 i was thinking maybe its cuz he enjoys the attention and me begging
@user82637382 babes the best thing you could do is go no contact, even if he texts you, you need to leave him on read. he’s playing in ur face and you guys broke up for a reason. If there was a chance of anything still happening it would’ve already happened. please move on for ur own well being 🩷
@mms1 it’s no contact, that’s the sad part is I feel like it’s over for real this time. Thank you so much for being so caring and I hope you heal from whatever brought u on this app💞
@user82637382 it IS over, you guys broke up for a reason and that’s okay, atleast you learnt from it and you’ll do better next time. just go over or hang out with anybody. might not be the best advice but also find someone new to be around if ykyk it’ll help a TONNN!! please
keep me updated and if you even need 2 talk im always here
@mms1 will do!! thanks for your advice angel ❤️❤️
@user82637382 hi, how you doing?
he’s leaving an avenue so you have the ability to communicate with him, and if you do it feeds his ego. as soon as you see he unblocks you on there and you have the ability to do, block him. he’s going to keep messing with you.
yes thanks a lot!!