well i messed up and I called him and to be honest I didn't really want to accept it was over. I know breaking no contact wasn't the best move but in all honesty I was going through it believing we would sort things out. I guess i needed to be snapped into reality so I could actually start healing.
I am actually so broken right now. please take this pain away.
he told me to move on and start dating other people. He seemed distant and cold.
Last updated on:2026-07-20T23:13:12+05:30
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sometimes we reach out because our heart needs that final moment to understand what our mind already knew. be gentle with yourself today, you’re grieving someone you still loved.
I am so sorry things didnt work out the way you wanted them to 😔my heart aches for you dont feel bad we all need that closure in order to move one and be free. you are a beautiful soul who deserves someone who loves you as much as you love them and they are out there but first you have to start loving yourself and starting this journey and getting that closure is what you needed even if it doesnt seem like it now.
when you called him, were you hoping he’d say he wanted to try again, or were you already feeling like you needed closure
honestly that he would try again.
It's not wasted time. You truly loved him. And with that comes hope. Hope for how the things used to be. But I think you know, that even now you are not the same person as before.
And I just saw a video: The world without your ex is soo much bigger than the world with your ex. there is so much to experience and explore. So I think you gave your relationship a last chance and it didn't work out. Again.
So now you need to be honest to yourself and confront yourself with the truth.
I did something similar, but he never responded. So I need to take no answer for an answer.
I try, whenever I get caught up in the good old times, to confront myself with the bad times.
whenever you can.
you will be okay. Next time you are about to break NC just text in here. We're all on the same boat.
Thankyou. I like that part about the world being bigger without him. I feel like I have the closure I need to accept its over and finally start the process of healing
breaking no contact because a part of me was still waiting for him to choose me, and hearing that coldness back hurt in a way i wasn’t ready for
yeah im really not doing OK.