We were on no contact since last 8days and he broke it today and called me...we talked like friends but I know he missed me too. I love him but I don't have hopes anymore. We were dating but we're more like eachother's bestfriends and only friends. I don't wanna leave my bsf alone even if we're the reason of eachother's heartbreak, we don't wanna leave eachother.
Last updated on:2026-07-23T10:41:16+05:30
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i’ve been in that place where my ex and i talked like nothing happened because the friendship was still there, even when our hearts were a mess.
Did it help you or did it become toxic eventually?
the hardest part was accepting that love alone didn’t fix what was hurting us. i kept holding on because i didn’t want to lose my best friend, but i had to ask myself if staying was helping me heal or keeping me stuck.
Yes.. Whatever makes our healing smooth, cause we need to get out of it alone. But meanwhile if you can face them without any strong feelings when they need you, do it. Well I do.
thats really progressive of you to put your emotions to the side to provide comfort for someone who hurt you..I dont think I could ever do that lol I am so proud of you if you start noticing its keeping you holding on ti hope for reconciliation will you make the decision to go no contact again?
Thanks a lot!And yeah if I'll ever feel like he wants to get back... I'll step back coz I can't see myself again in that state that I was in the initial days of our break up....it was so hard for me to get out of that phase and stand again and I won't let him or anybody to push me back and if they'll try I'll disappear from their life frvr.
you both talk now, do you feel more peaceful afterward or does it make the heartbreak feel fresh again
We'll idk really.... I'm just numb atp. Idk what he really wants but from my side I'm really very better than the initial days of our break up and have accepted and moving on. I've tried enough to save this relationship so many times so I've just accepted it all. Now even if he wants to come back, I just don't think that I'll let him.