i def felt better today, maybe it’s bcs I was distracted a little but I didn’t find myself thinking of him as much as I always do, I still care for him but I think I learned I can do that at a distance and without contact. I’ve been getting closer to God and tmr I have a pool party with my friends and I can’t wait. to everyone out there struggling it’s okay you’re not alone! take it one day at a time and don’t hold everything in!
Last updated on:2026-07-23T18:03:12+05:30
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i started healing when i stopped measuring my progress by how much i missed him and started noticing the little moments where i felt like me again. enjoy that pool party, you deserve those happy moments.
i love that you said you can care for him at a distance. i’m curious, was there a specific moment that made you realize you were ready to let the space be there?
the first day i noticed i could go a few hours without thinking about my ex, it felt strange but also like i was finding myself again. caring about someone from a distance was one of the hardest things i had to learn too.
love this. glad you are feeling a little better.