Why i broke no contact with my ex

Its been 6 weeks since we have seen each other in person, but I have constantly broken NC. Yesterday we drove past each other and stopped. We went and got a drink. It was kind of weird but also nice. After seeing him I do feel better about moving forward. it made me notice the things that really are incompatible between us and that we really don't have much in common aside from the physical. I do still care for him and love him, but I really feel stronger about moving forward and focussing on myself for a while.

Last updated on:2026-08-02T00:13:12+05:30

Comments (4)

Moanregr3t
Moanregr3t 3 wks ago

i'm really glad you walked away feeling clearer instead of more confused.

Coast929
Coast929 3 wks ago

do you feel like seeing him gave you the closure you were looking for, or did it just remind you that you're ready for a different chapter?

Cheetos93
Cheetos93 3 wks ago

seeing my ex after weeks apart and i built that moment up so much in my head. then i realized i missed the idea of us more than the reality.

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 3 wks ago

Do you feel more at peace now? I feel the more time passes, the more you can see the whole picture of what the relationship was truly like. I wish you all the best on your path forward