i once thought never talking to him again would kill me. it still hurts to really sit down and accept that we will never speak again, but i’ve made it this far.
this is your sign to trust that what’s meant to be will be. you can pray everyday for that man back, but at the end of the day sometimes he’s just not your person.
i don’t think my future husband would ever go 100 days without contacting me. so i’m making the promise to myself that im never going to ever be the one to reach out.
Last updated on:2026-08-18T06:55:08+05:30
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i made the same promise to myself after my breakup. every time i wanted to text, i wrote it somewhere else instead, and eventually the urge stopped running my life.
day 100 is HUGE. i remember reaching a milestone like that and still having days where i missed him so badly, but realizing i had survived every day without reaching out felt different
you think part of you is still hoping he'll reach out someday, or are you finally starting to believe you deserve someone who chooses you without being chased?
i’d be lying if i didn’t admit that i still hope to hear from him. idk how to stop that
amazing! you are an inspiration to the rest of us and you should feel immensely proud of yourself ❤️ thanks for sharing your healing journey, it helps us all to know it’s possible!
Congradulations now stop counting
so happy for you!!
you sound like you are in a good place. Congrats on making it to 100 days! May you find a love that treats you the way you want to be treated