blocking my ex felt brutal at first because it made the breakup feel so final, but every day i kept them blocked was one less day spent checking for signs.
I am proud of you 🙏 I don't have the strength to block him yet, I keep checking when he is online, I think I am still seeking some kind of connection, but I can't let it go yet, it'll probably take more time..
A piece of advice and this help me a lot as an anxious person if it's messenger or instagram turn off your active notifications so that you won't see if he is online or not, i know it's hard but they say it takes 22 days to make it a habit no pain no gain 💪
@JoyfulSun176 i feel u sis i also feel the urge sometimes to unblock him bit instead i just on and open this app the see how many hours i did no contact we can do this 🙏
@estellemrt hahaha its true especially he is from Pluvigner he always say he ia stubborn lol, yes we are ldr for 2 yrs and he visited me twice no cheating or abuse that happened, it just we dont communicate well and he is an avoidant.
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blocking my ex felt brutal at first because it made the breakup feel so final, but every day i kept them blocked was one less day spent checking for signs.
Yeah it felt good especially when i look at the timer here on this application keeps me motivated.
what usually makes you want to unblock him, missing him or hoping he'll reach out?
Missing him, because I know if i unblock him he'll reach out.
U can so this !
Thank you we all can 💪
good luck you got this. keep them blocked!
Thank you 🙏
I am proud of you 🙏 I don't have the strength to block him yet, I keep checking when he is online, I think I am still seeking some kind of connection, but I can't let it go yet, it'll probably take more time..
A piece of advice and this help me a lot as an anxious person if it's messenger or instagram turn off your active notifications so that you won't see if he is online or not, i know it's hard but they say it takes 22 days to make it a habit no pain no gain 💪
@MissP Thanks, I will try to do that, hope it helps and I lose the urge to check 🙏
@JoyfulSun176 i feel u sis i also feel the urge sometimes to unblock him bit instead i just on and open this app the see how many hours i did no contact we can do this 🙏
congratulations that's a big step 💋
Thank you btw he is from France too hhehe
@MissP haha french men can be pretty hard tbh
@MissP so u were at distance ?
@estellemrt hahaha its true especially he is from Pluvigner he always say he ia stubborn lol, yes we are ldr for 2 yrs and he visited me twice no cheating or abuse that happened, it just we dont communicate well and he is an avoidant.
@MissP oh wow that's really sad it ended because of this :( I hope you'll be okay